So for election week I voted absentee and then escaped on an internetless Shenandoah getaway. In 2012 I held my tongue throughout the election process and then made a single
short election journal of my more composed thoughts
and memes?. I'm gonna try and do that again, but this time I'm including photography I took in the mountains last week, partially cause I know everyone is sick to death of the election. If you want to skip the text and just look at the shiny pictures, you are most welcome to. This is mostly for myself, anyway.
I value self control and level headedness very much and it was really healthy for me to step away from things. Not only did it prevent me from getting swept up in the outcome myself, but I also appreciated being distanced from other people's
various reactions. There was relatively little positivity in either campaign and it felt like a competition to see who could stir up the most fear of The Other. I can't really blame people who got caught up in that. I can understand why there are those who feel relief that their fears didn't come to fruition. I also have no wish to invalidate the feelings of those who are still fearful.
I just... have been resigning myself to getting a new president that I don't care for (to put it lightly) in the months since the primaries, so after finding out the results, there wasn't much left to process.
At the moment I am craving balance. What frustrated me the most about this election was people acting like there were absolutes. The two main candidates were so deeply flawed, so entangled in scandals and ethical shortcomings—more so than politics as usual—it seems dishonest that people could support either one without at least
acknowledging the existence of those flaws. I get that it's human nature to whitewash all the problems on your team, but surely there's a point where that's no longer acceptable? I have been disheartened by watching decent people bend over backwards to defend things antithetical to what they believe.
I've also been pleasantly surprised by the people I felt sure would fall perfectly into party lines but stood their moral ground instead. I have a lot of respect for Democrats and Republicans who are big enough people that they can call out wrongs that they see in their own party. They are wonderful types of human beings who I am very proud of and they're greatly needed if anything in the two main parties is ever going to change for the better. I wouldn't have witnessed them stand for what's right if push hadn't come to shove. This is my second favorite thing about this whole experience.
My first being the idea to go to the mountains and then actually doing it.
I love hiking, sadness just melts away from me. Fellow hikers smile and say hello, no matter who they are or who you are, and it seems like sadness has melted from them, too. It feels very far away from demonizing and labeling and drama and gloating and cruelty. I am very thankful for the pockets of humanity like that.
Lastly, here are some quotes from the journal in 2012 that I think are still relevant:
"This election got pretty ugly, but I think future ones will be a lot worse." (simply prophetic)
"I think that America isn't too big to fail, but it's too big for one man to bring down." (ready to see how this holds up)
"No matter what the outcome, it's important to continue to be kind, stand for your beliefs, and respect others who do not share them."